How many photos of yourself with your children do you have hanging on your walls right now?


For most moms, the answer is very few or even none. Between being the family photographer, feeling self-conscious, or simply putting everyone else’s needs first, moms are notoriously absent from family photo archives. Today, I'm making the case for why you not only deserve professional motherhood photos—but why they might be one of the most important investments you’ll ever make.


As a mom of three boys, I know firsthand how deeply important it is to be in the photo with your little ones. I treasure every image I have of myself with my children—not because I looked perfect or everything went according to plan—but because I want my boys to know I was there. That I was present. That I am proud to be their mother. Those photos are my reminder of this beautiful, fleeting season and a gift I’m leaving for them to hold onto.

A parent in a white dress holds a small baby in the air while standing in a bright minimalist room with wood floors.
Mother and baby in white outfits share a joyful moment together outdoors on a sunny afternoon.
A tender moment between parent and baby as they lie together in peaceful serenity, dressed in peach lace and blue.
A tender outdoor family moment captured in a sunlit meadow with soft wildflowers and greenery in the background.
A tender family moment on a white bed with blue bedding as they cuddle with a newborn baby.
Woman in white dress and child sit together on blanket by pond during golden hour in wooded setting.

The Documented Relationship: Why Motherhood Photography Matters



Motherhood photos capture more than just a moment—they preserve the ever-evolving bond between a mother and her child. Every stage of motherhood holds its own kind of magic, and photography allows us to hold onto it just a little longer.


As children grow, they naturally look for themselves in their family’s photo albums—and they notice when Mom is missing. Professional photography allows us to go beyond the posed smile and capture genuine connection: the quiet snuggles, the belly laughs, the little hand holding yours. These photos become even more meaningful as time passes, life changes, and children grow into adults who want to remember where they came from.


Looking through my own childhood albums, I realized just how few photos I have with my mom. There are plenty of me alone, with my siblings, or with my dad—but images of just the two of us are rare. That realization became a turning point. I don’t want to leave the same visual gap for my own children. I want them to see that I was there, loving them through every moment.

A heartwarming family moment captured on a beige couch with natural light streaming through sheer white curtains.

Beyond the Family Portrait: Types of Motherhood Sessions to Consider



Motherhood photography is not one-size-fits-all. There are so many beautiful ways to document the beautiful connection between you and your little ones:


  • Lifestyle "Mommy and Me" sessions that capture the everyday sweetness of your routines
  • Studio portraits that focus purely on the emotional bond between mother and child
  • Documentary "Day in the Life" sessions that celebrate the beautiful chaos of motherhood
  • Milestone sessions like six months or first birthdays that mark important growth
  • Multi-generational sessions with grandmothers, mothers, and children together


Milestone sessions are especially close to my heart. It’s often during these sessions that I hear moms say, “I wanted to be part of the photos this time.” So often, moms spend those special days making sure everyone else is comfortable—planning the party, taking the pictures, being the hostess. I always make time during my sessions for quiet, uninterrupted moments with just mom and her babies. It’s a rare time where moms get to feel pampered, seen, and cherished.

A mom and her daughter share a joyful moment playing together at their mommy and me session in Columbus, GA.
A loving parent and child share a tender moment together while sitting on a white bed with a plant in the background.

Overcoming the Hesitation: Why Moms Avoid the Camera (And Why They Shouldn’t)



We all do it—we wait.

Wait to lose the weight.

Wait until we feel “put together.”

Wait until things slow down.


But here’s the truth: your kids aren’t waiting. They’re growing, right now, and they don’t see what you see when you look in the mirror. They see the one who kisses their boo-boos, reads bedtime stories, and makes everything feel safe.


The most common thing I hear from moms is “I don’t feel photo-ready.” But the thing is, your children just want to see you in the story. Not the perfect version. You. And while selfies are fun, they rarely capture the real, emotional connection you share. A professional session allows you to be fully present and creates art that honors your role.


My own boys adore looking through our family albums. Their eyes light up when they spot themselves, and I can’t help but smile when their tiny fingers point at each person, saying their names and recalling what we were doing. These aren’t just pictures—they’re portals to the memories we share.

Making the Most of Your "Mommy and Me" Photo Session



Here are a few tips to help make your motherhood session meaningful and stress-free:


What to wear: Choose soft, neutral tones that photograph well and let the connection take center stage. I offer a curated client closet for moms and children up to 5T to make styling effortless.

What to bring: Snacks, a favorite toy, or something comforting for your little one.

Trust the process: I’ll guide you every step of the way, and all you need to do is be yourself.

From Gallery to Home: Don’t let these images sit on your phone. Print them! Create a gallery wall, a statement piece, or an heirloom album that your kids will flip through for years.

Make it a tradition: Consider scheduling a motherhood session each year—just like birthdays or holidays. It’s a gift to your children and to yourself.

A mother and daughter wearing matching pink tulle dresses sit together on brick steps in front of a white building facade.

The Legacy of "Mommy and Me" Photography



When you step in front of the camera with your child, you're doing more than taking a photo — you're building a legacy of love. These portraits become part of your family’s story, treasured not just by you but by your children as they grow, and one day, perhaps, by their children too.


Through the years, I've had the honor of photographing so many tender moments between mothers and their little ones — the quiet cuddles, the joyful giggles, the way tiny hands reach for yours without hesitation. These are the stories worth remembering.


I know how hard it can be to carve out time for yourself or to feel “ready” to be in front of the camera. But time has a way of moving quickly, and one day you'll be so grateful to have chosen to be seen, just as you are — deeply loved and beautifully real.


Whether it's your first photo session or your fifth, my mission at Carolina Bowers Photography is to make this experience joyful, meaningful, and deeply personal. So here’s your gentle reminder: step into the frame, mama. You belong there.


I’d love to hear your story. Comment below with your favorite photo of you and your child (or you and your own mother), or reach out to learn more about my upcoming motherhood sessions.


➡️ If this resonated with you, you might also enjoy How to Prepare for a Family Photo Session

💛 Or let's start planning your own session today — reach out here!

Mother in a beautiful blue dress tenderly holds her sleeping newborn nose to nose while sitting on a bed in bright minimalist bedroom.
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